Giving Thanks 2011

Good gravy! It's been six months since I've sat before my blog, fingers pecking away to regale cyberspace with my thoughts and words. I'd like to take a moment to apologize to the part of my ego that likes to be consistent and see things through - the rest of me doesn't give him much of a chance. But I'm back (for now) on my fun-sized forum and what better motivation to return than to give thanks, as today is Thanksgiving Eve 2011.

I may not be conscientious all of the time to give acknowledgment to the things that keep me going on a daily basis, so thank goodness for a holiday that encourages tapping into the recesses of my mind to do so. I am thankful for my health. I may not be a perfect specimen of health, but I am able to do so much. I can make food, I can drive a car, I can dress myself. I'm not a star athlete, but I can do summersaults, victory dances, and jumping jacks. I have muscle enough in my arms to give a hug, muscle enough in my legs to run to friends and family in need, and muscle enough in my heart to love.

I'm thankful for shelter over my head and clothes on my back. 

In spite of troubles and flaws, I am thankful for living in a country of want - to eat where I want, shop where I want, say what I want, believe what I want, love and, in some specific locations, marry who I want.

I'm thankful for games - a social pastime that has turned many strangers into great friends.

I’m thankful for music and art and those that create it.

I'm thankful for plumbing, hot water, electricity, heat in the winter and cool in the summer. Utility bills are a small price to pay for comfort.

I'm thankful for two sets of family. First off, my gay-ming family. These folks started out as friends, but over quality time and cherished memories, they have found a permanent place in my heart. I'm very blessed to have these many, many friends in my life. For the friendships that have gotten stronger and the ones I would like to cultivate further. And of course, the family that has been with me for twenty-two years. My sis and bro who are my gaming buddies and life-long friends. A parental unit whose generosity is only out matched by their unconditional love and acceptance. Uncles and aunts who are inspirations on raising families. Cousins who are confidants and friends. A one and only Gran who is an example of vitality and good humor at any age.

I'm thankful for the fight for human equality and rights to EVERY citizen of the U.S.A. And for the men and women who fight for the freedoms for all, overseas and on the home front.

Specifically for the year 2011:

I am thankful for the purchase of my impractical car. It’s fun and I love it.

I’m thankful I was able to participate in a charity event for Primary Children’s Hospital.

I am thankful for fall trips with old and new friends.

I’m thankful for second chances.

I am thankful for the promises of love, comfort and support between me and my best friend and future husband.

And I am thankful to you, dear reader, whoever you are. I wish you and yours a warm and loving day of thanks.

May the spirit of gratitude be forever in our hearts.